This is a place where we can chat about the things we love, talk about our problems and feelings, about what makes us sad or angry.I hope that by finding people to talk to who share common interests we can make good friendships, talk about what we love and make each other smile. Would love it if other people in my area would love to meet up and do activities with people who feel the same. I will organise a space where we can meet up, and maybe run this like a supper club - meet eat n chat.If you are single and say, ‘I do not need someone to make me happy’. They all tell me, all of them, they want to find their other half so they can be in love. It is not some Gothic male fantasy, this is reality if you are not in the USA.
If you are not chewing the fat on the weekends with some group of friend at a clam bake watching the sun set, having dry wine and french cheese than you are not living. It does not allow you to feel the full pain of being single and lonely, therefore, push you to action. It just means you have the courage of your convictions to wait. For example, if you started to talk to these European beauties they would be probability be thanking you, if they were single. Unsure what to do, you open that dating app and start to swipe.You see faces of potential partners wiz by and for a moment, it helps. We’ve all been in this moment – the moment when a twinge of loneliness spurs an online dating session.Why is it that Americans feel the need to almost apologize when they are looking for someone?They feel the need to qualify things with statements like ‘ I am not desperate’ . Many Americans behave like if you do not have a boyfriend or girlfriend that looks like someone out of a J. If you date someone, but they are not your one and only, that is messed up.